“At 8:17 on a Wednesday night, I watched my husband marry his pregnant mistress on Instagram while I was still sitting at work. 010

I’m sorry I destroyed the best thing I ever had.

I knew the handwriting.

Ryan.

I put the photograph in a drawer.

I didn’t tear it.

I didn’t keep it on my desk.

I simply put it away.

Some memories don’t need to be destroyed.

They only need to stop controlling you.

Two years later, I launched my own investment firm.

My father’s trust became the foundation.

The company grew faster than I expected.

I hired women who had been told they were too ambitious.

Women who had been dismissed.

Women who had been underestimated.

At our first annual dinner, I stood before three hundred employees.

I looked across the room.

Then I smiled.

“When people underestimate you,” I said, “don’t waste your energy convincing them.”

The room became quiet.

“Build something they can’t take away.”

Applause filled the ballroom.

I looked toward the windows.